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i'm horrible at making decisions. i never was like this before, but it seems that at times it gets worse! i can't even decide what to have for dinner, to what time i want to go to sleep. how horrible is that?! are any of you like this?! i was born in october and my sign is libra.which is the scale. it says in my horoscope book that libras have a hard time making decisions and it can ruin relationships with others. i can't count how many stupid fights john and i have had because i can't make up my mind. he gets so aggrivated, because i leave things up to him to decide.only because i can't make up my stupid mind! HELP!
You know, I am this way too, and a lot of times its because I don't care what we have for dinner or where we go, etc.
Just start forcing yourself to decide. I find mine fluctuates.
Morning,
From another under the sign of Libra, I understand completely. Life is tough especially when deciding what to wear. I just accept it now and when I know I need to make a decision I just allow more time to make up my mind. When i don't have time I have learnt to force myself to go with my first choice. And also ask for others opinions.
Julie
I hate making decisions and I'm not a Libra. Problem is my boyfriend also hates making a decision. Therefore when we are trying to decide on something together, it often takes forever and we often argue about it just because we don't want to decide by our selves! I don't know how to stop doing that and being more decisive but I wish I did.
I am a Libra and I have to make millions of decisions everyday.I can't say I have ever had that problem at all, maybe because I didn't have a mother after the age of 15 so I grew up very quickly and just had to make choices and decisions very quickly.
It's just part of growing up.
Make a decision on what to wear is one thing, making a decision to buy a house, get married, now they are decisions!!! Hang in there it gets easier.
I am a libra too dont have trouble making decisions.
i'm horrible at making decisions. i never was like this before, but it seems that at times it gets worse! i can't even decide what to have for dinner, to what time i want to go to sleep. how horrible is that?! are any of you like this?! i was born in october and my sign is libra.which is the scale. it says in my horoscope book that libras have a hard time making decisions and it can ruin relationships with others. i can't count how many stupid fights john and i have had because i can't make up my mind. he gets so aggrivated, because i leave things up to him to decide.only because i can't make up my stupid mind! HELP!
Well firstly, don't call yourself stupid (or use the word in a sentence referring to yourself) you are very far from 'stupid', and secondly, I'm a Scorpion and have the same problem! If it's simple things like what's for dinner then it's a compromise in my place, it's a heavy question, then I call my mum!!
Off the topic of star signs. you did say you weren't like this in the past. and given some of your other threads about the changes in your life. there's a very good chance this is all stress related. I may be completely wrong and maybe it isn't that big a deal, but certainly something for you to think about. Not being able to make decisions any more about even some of the littler things in life is one of the early signs of stress and of depression.
Off the topic of star signs. you did say you weren't like this in the past. and given some of your other threads about the changes in your life. there's a very good chance this is all stress related. I may be completely wrong and maybe it isn't that big a deal, but certainly something for you to think about. Not being able to make decisions any more about even some of the littler things in life is one of the early signs of stress and of depression.
Well said!!!!! Deciding what to have for dinner etc should not be so stressful. As someone said what house to buy etc are hard decisions. I think it has been suggested before but maybe a visit to your doctor just to make sure all is ok is not a bad idea
My sister has had trouble making decisions her whole life, my mum always said it was because she was a Libra, maybe it is when you were born under Libra? My sis is Oct 2!!
I, on the other hand have only become indecisive since becoming a mum.
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You know, I am this way too, and a lot of times its because I don't care what we have for dinner or where we go, etc.
Just start forcing yourself to decide. I find mine fluctuates.
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Morning,
From another under the sign of Libra, I understand completely. Life is tough especially when deciding what to wear. I just accept it now and when I know I need to make a decision I just allow more time to make up my mind. When i don't have time I have learnt to force myself to go with my first choice. And also ask for others opinions.
Julie
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I hate making decisions and I'm not a Libra. Problem is my boyfriend also hates making a decision. Therefore when we are trying to decide on something together, it often takes forever and we often argue about it just because we don't want to decide by our selves! I don't know how to stop doing that and being more decisive but I wish I did.
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I am a Libra and I have to make millions of decisions everyday.I can't say I have ever had that problem at all, maybe because I didn't have a mother after the age of 15 so I grew up very quickly and just had to make choices and decisions very quickly.
It's just part of growing up.
Make a decision on what to wear is one thing, making a decision to buy a house, get married, now they are decisions!!! Hang in there it gets easier.
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I am a libra too dont have trouble making decisions.
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i'm horrible at making decisions. i never was like this before, but it seems that at times it gets worse! i can't even decide what to have for dinner, to what time i want to go to sleep. how horrible is that?! are any of you like this?! i was born in october and my sign is libra.which is the scale. it says in my horoscope book that libras have a hard time making decisions and it can ruin relationships with others. i can't count how many stupid fights john and i have had because i can't make up my mind. he gets so aggrivated, because i leave things up to him to decide.only because i can't make up my stupid mind! HELP!
Well firstly, don't call yourself stupid (or use the word in a sentence referring to yourself) you are very far from 'stupid', and secondly, I'm a Scorpion and have the same problem! If it's simple things like what's for dinner then it's a compromise in my place, it's a heavy question, then I call my mum!!
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Off the topic of star signs. you did say you weren't like this in the past. and given some of your other threads about the changes in your life. there's a very good chance this is all stress related. I may be completely wrong and maybe it isn't that big a deal, but certainly something for you to think about. Not being able to make decisions any more about even some of the littler things in life is one of the early signs of stress and of depression.
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Off the topic of star signs. you did say you weren't like this in the past. and given some of your other threads about the changes in your life. there's a very good chance this is all stress related. I may be completely wrong and maybe it isn't that big a deal, but certainly something for you to think about. Not being able to make decisions any more about even some of the littler things in life is one of the early signs of stress and of depression.
Well said!!!!! Deciding what to have for dinner etc should not be so stressful. As someone said what house to buy etc are hard decisions. I think it has been suggested before but maybe a visit to your doctor just to make sure all is ok is not a bad idea
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My sister has had trouble making decisions her whole life, my mum always said it was because she was a Libra, maybe it is when you were born under Libra? My sis is Oct 2!!
I, on the other hand have only become indecisive since becoming a mum.