Question:
Does anyone have behaviour problems with their kids. If so what is the behaviour what do you do to correct the behaviour.
Just the normal teenage traumas.and I then have a whinge in here to cope.
General 5 yo and 7 yo stuff and dealing with it depends on the situation, where we are and their age. There have been times when I have seriously worried about my son when he's bouncing off walls, but I usually regain sanity at the end of the day and realise that he just didn't have the opportunity to release his energy and was bored.
Is that what you're after or are you talking the 'labelled' type of probelms?
Just received this email!!
If the naughty chair doesn't work.
Hi thats a cute email.lol
^^^^
If it is just general boundary pushing. we have Time Out or the Naughty Corner . if they continue the problems. we have Discussion Time + LOP Time = Loss of Privledges eg. no TV. no gameboys. no friends. no phone. then if they continue. they get a smack. simple. kinda like we have tried everything else. now you get a smack. and all of the above on top.
Just the normal teenage traumas.and I then have a whinge in here to cope.
Thanks Heather Ann, I got through the teenage years with my eldest. She did try to push her boundries a couple of times but not much, I think I blinked course now she's 22 a really beautiful young lady, ( body soul). I use to have a lot of behavioural problems with my eldest son now 7, thank god he has settled down is trying to control his anger. My daughter who is 5, I think is jealous of our 7 year old as she lies to get him into trouble ever since he has been behaving himself trying to do the right thing. She also seems to think crying will get her what ever she wants. She is such a beautiful little girl I just wish she would get over her jealousy, I have tried evrything I can think of to help her but nothing seemed to work, but I think I made a break through tonight. Here's hoping.
General 5 yo and 7 yo stuff and dealing with it depends on the situation, where we are and their age. There have been times when I have seriously worried about my son when he's bouncing off walls, but I usually regain sanity at the end of the day and realise that he just didn't have the opportunity to release his energy and was bored.
Is that what you're after or are you talking the 'labelled' type of probelms?
Yeah real tantrum throwing like throwing toys or objects lashing out screaming running away in shopping centers trying to tip furniture over. That sort of thing, I hope someone know what it is like as I think I have found something that works.
Just received this email!!
If the naughty chair doesn't work.
Very good but I don't think the duct tape would hold.
^^^^
If it is just general boundary pushing. we have Time Out or the Naughty Corner . if they continue the problems. we have Discussion Time + LOP Time = Loss of Privledges eg. no TV. no gameboys. no friends. no phone. then if they continue. they get a smack. simple. kinda like we have tried everything else. now you get a smack. and all of the above on top.
I have done all the time outs naughty chairs taken privleges but alas they didn't work for long, I don't smack at all. I have found fining him has done more that any time out etc; Thank god I found this as it has made him really think about what he is doing.
Just the normal teenage traumas.and I then have a whinge in here to cope.
Thanks Heather Ann, I got through the teenage years with my eldest. She did try to push her boundries a couple of times but not much, I think I blinked course now she's 22 a really beautiful young lady, ( body soul). I use to have a lot of behavioural problems with my eldest son now 7, thank god he has settled down is trying to control his anger. My daughter who is 5, I think is jealous of our 7 year old as she lies to get him into trouble ever since he has been behaving himself trying to do the right thing. She also seems to think crying will get her what ever she wants. She is such a beautiful little girl I just wish she would get over her jealousy, I have tried evrything I can think of to help her but nothing seemed to work, but I think I made a break through tonight. Here's hoping.
Just the normal teenage traumas.and I then have a whinge in here to cope.
Thanks Heather Ann, I got through the teenage years with my eldest. She did try to push her boundries a couple of times but not much, I think I blinked course now she's 22 a really beautiful young lady, ( body soul). I use to have a lot of behavioural problems with my eldest son now 7, thank god he has settled down is trying to control his anger. My daughter who is 5, I think is jealous of our 7 year old as she lies to get him into trouble ever since he has been behaving himself trying to do the right thing. She also seems to think crying will get her what ever she wants. She is such a beautiful little girl I just wish she would get over her jealousy, I have tried evrything I can think of to help her but nothing seemed to work, but I think I made a break through tonight. Here's hoping.
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Just the normal teenage traumas.and I then have a whinge in here to cope.
Answer:
General 5 yo and 7 yo stuff and dealing with it depends on the situation, where we are and their age. There have been times when I have seriously worried about my son when he's bouncing off walls, but I usually regain sanity at the end of the day and realise that he just didn't have the opportunity to release his energy and was bored.
Is that what you're after or are you talking the 'labelled' type of probelms?
Answer:
Just received this email!!
If the naughty chair doesn't work.
Answer:
Hi thats a cute email.lol
Answer:
^^^^
If it is just general boundary pushing. we have Time Out or the Naughty Corner . if they continue the problems. we have Discussion Time + LOP Time = Loss of Privledges eg. no TV. no gameboys. no friends. no phone. then if they continue. they get a smack. simple. kinda like we have tried everything else. now you get a smack. and all of the above on top.
Answer:
Just the normal teenage traumas.and I then have a whinge in here to cope.
Thanks Heather Ann, I got through the teenage years with my eldest. She did try to push her boundries a couple of times but not much, I think I blinked course now she's 22 a really beautiful young lady, ( body soul). I use to have a lot of behavioural problems with my eldest son now 7, thank god he has settled down is trying to control his anger. My daughter who is 5, I think is jealous of our 7 year old as she lies to get him into trouble ever since he has been behaving himself trying to do the right thing. She also seems to think crying will get her what ever she wants. She is such a beautiful little girl I just wish she would get over her jealousy, I have tried evrything I can think of to help her but nothing seemed to work, but I think I made a break through tonight. Here's hoping.
General 5 yo and 7 yo stuff and dealing with it depends on the situation, where we are and their age. There have been times when I have seriously worried about my son when he's bouncing off walls, but I usually regain sanity at the end of the day and realise that he just didn't have the opportunity to release his energy and was bored.
Is that what you're after or are you talking the 'labelled' type of probelms?
Yeah real tantrum throwing like throwing toys or objects lashing out screaming running away in shopping centers trying to tip furniture over. That sort of thing, I hope someone know what it is like as I think I have found something that works.
Just received this email!!
If the naughty chair doesn't work.
Very good but I don't think the duct tape would hold.
^^^^
If it is just general boundary pushing. we have Time Out or the Naughty Corner . if they continue the problems. we have Discussion Time + LOP Time = Loss of Privledges eg. no TV. no gameboys. no friends. no phone. then if they continue. they get a smack. simple. kinda like we have tried everything else. now you get a smack. and all of the above on top.
I have done all the time outs naughty chairs taken privleges but alas they didn't work for long, I don't smack at all. I have found fining him has done more that any time out etc; Thank god I found this as it has made him really think about what he is doing.
Just the normal teenage traumas.and I then have a whinge in here to cope.
Thanks Heather Ann, I got through the teenage years with my eldest. She did try to push her boundries a couple of times but not much, I think I blinked course now she's 22 a really beautiful young lady, ( body soul). I use to have a lot of behavioural problems with my eldest son now 7, thank god he has settled down is trying to control his anger. My daughter who is 5, I think is jealous of our 7 year old as she lies to get him into trouble ever since he has been behaving himself trying to do the right thing. She also seems to think crying will get her what ever she wants. She is such a beautiful little girl I just wish she would get over her jealousy, I have tried evrything I can think of to help her but nothing seemed to work, but I think I made a break through tonight. Here's hoping.
Just the normal teenage traumas.and I then have a whinge in here to cope.
Thanks Heather Ann, I got through the teenage years with my eldest. She did try to push her boundries a couple of times but not much, I think I blinked course now she's 22 a really beautiful young lady, ( body soul). I use to have a lot of behavioural problems with my eldest son now 7, thank god he has settled down is trying to control his anger. My daughter who is 5, I think is jealous of our 7 year old as she lies to get him into trouble ever since he has been behaving himself trying to do the right thing. She also seems to think crying will get her what ever she wants. She is such a beautiful little girl I just wish she would get over her jealousy, I have tried evrything I can think of to help her but nothing seemed to work, but I think I made a break through tonight. Here's hoping.