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Mine is worried atm because I don't know how I am going to get through the day with 3 kids the way I am feeling.
mine is because it is cold and rainy
Mine is sad because someone always speaks to me with an aggressive voice and it upsets me.
Mine is sad because someone always speaks to me with an aggressive voice and it upsets me.
Sorry to hear that Sonnie
Hadn't changed it in a while.I'm just content so relaxed is the nearest thing to it I guess.
mines currently sad, because I just feel lost, so much I want to do, but its hot, and the kids are. well, kids. The house feels messy, too hot to do it, its none of my mess, the gardens need a big clean up, theres crap all through them, the fish pond is disgusting. and unless I do it, it aint going to get done! The lawns need a cut (not that theres much) but theres crap all over them too, before I can phone someone to do it, the stuff needs to be picked up that has been there for a good 2 months. Hate living in a rented house, hate having no yard for the kids to PLAY in, hate having a damn big car I cant park at the shops coz all the carspots are small, plus I cant park the big bloody thing(but otherwise I love the car).
I dont like myself too much at the moment, how easy I can lose my temper at the kids (and being HOT doesnt help one bit, nor does being stuck inside to play coz its hot, and theres no room outside anyway)
so yeah, just sad, coz there always seems there is something in the way of what I would like to happen, no-one else seems to see the mess (or cares)
and cleaning doesnt just involve picking up toys and rubbish. it means toilets need doing, floors need mopping, windows, bathrooms, walls wiped.
If I had the $$ I would pay someone to help me, as no-one here does!! sure they pick stuff up off the floor, and clear the benches, take the rubbish out (mind you, its overflowing by then and they dont pick up the little bits that fall behind the bin!! NO!! I do that!)
I hate having to ask mum for help, to come watch the kids while I go grocery shopping (lets be real here, I am NOT taking 6 kids with me!!!) I mean mum will, but shes got dad and nanna to worry about, plus her own problems.
sorry for the whinge.
mines currently sad, because I just feel lost, so much I want to do, but its hot, and the kids are. well, kids. The house feels messy, too hot to do it, its none of my mess, the gardens need a big clean up, theres crap all through them, the fish pond is disgusting. and unless I do it, it aint going to get done! The lawns need a cut (not that theres much) but theres crap all over them too, before I can phone someone to do it, the stuff needs to be picked up that has been there for a good 2 months. Hate living in a rented house, hate having no yard for the kids to PLAY in, hate having a damn big car I cant park at the shops coz all the carspots are small, plus I cant park the big bloody thing(but otherwise I love the car).
I dont like myself too much at the moment, how easy I can lose my temper at the kids (and being HOT doesnt help one bit, nor does being stuck inside to play coz its hot, and theres no room outside anyway)
so yeah, just sad, coz there always seems there is something in the way of what I would like to happen, no-one else seems to see the mess (or cares)
and cleaning doesnt just involve picking up toys and rubbish. it means toilets need doing, floors need mopping, windows, bathrooms, walls wiped.
If I had the $$ I would pay someone to help me, as no-one here does!! sure they pick stuff up off the floor, and clear the benches, take the rubbish out (mind you, its overflowing by then and they dont pick up the little bits that fall behind the bin!! NO!! I do that!)
I hate having to ask mum for help, to come watch the kids while I go grocery shopping (lets be real here, I am NOT taking 6 kids with me!!!) I mean mum will, but shes got dad and nanna to worry about, plus her own problems.
sorry for the whinge.
I am happy for the moment. Kids have been fed, and the kitchen and dining table cleaned, as well as the lounge room floor. It wasn't easy, but now I am having gruelling sit downs (much needed) for the next couple of hours then it will be
Poor Mel.we've all been there haven't we Ladies.all know the absolute despair of a messy house and little or no inclination to do a proper job.
I should be doing mine, but think I am still suffering Xmas lag.
My mood icon is doubtful as the TT has just gone to see his Dad for a couple of days.and I am worried that he will be OK.
Mine has changed to tired as I am going to go clean my teeth and then go to bed
Sonnie who is apeaking to you in an aggressive tone?thats not on
Melwhjat can i say the house is bound to be messy with 6 kids would your DH take the kids out for a few hours for you to clean up a bit?
mine is stressed because i am stressed with mum if it's not mum someone or something is stressing me
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mine is because it is cold and rainy
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Mine is sad because someone always speaks to me with an aggressive voice and it upsets me.
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Mine is sad because someone always speaks to me with an aggressive voice and it upsets me.
Sorry to hear that Sonnie
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Hadn't changed it in a while.I'm just content so relaxed is the nearest thing to it I guess.
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mines currently sad, because I just feel lost, so much I want to do, but its hot, and the kids are. well, kids. The house feels messy, too hot to do it, its none of my mess, the gardens need a big clean up, theres crap all through them, the fish pond is disgusting. and unless I do it, it aint going to get done! The lawns need a cut (not that theres much) but theres crap all over them too, before I can phone someone to do it, the stuff needs to be picked up that has been there for a good 2 months. Hate living in a rented house, hate having no yard for the kids to PLAY in, hate having a damn big car I cant park at the shops coz all the carspots are small, plus I cant park the big bloody thing(but otherwise I love the car).
I dont like myself too much at the moment, how easy I can lose my temper at the kids (and being HOT doesnt help one bit, nor does being stuck inside to play coz its hot, and theres no room outside anyway)
so yeah, just sad, coz there always seems there is something in the way of what I would like to happen, no-one else seems to see the mess (or cares)
and cleaning doesnt just involve picking up toys and rubbish. it means toilets need doing, floors need mopping, windows, bathrooms, walls wiped.
If I had the $$ I would pay someone to help me, as no-one here does!! sure they pick stuff up off the floor, and clear the benches, take the rubbish out (mind you, its overflowing by then and they dont pick up the little bits that fall behind the bin!! NO!! I do that!)
I hate having to ask mum for help, to come watch the kids while I go grocery shopping (lets be real here, I am NOT taking 6 kids with me!!!) I mean mum will, but shes got dad and nanna to worry about, plus her own problems.
sorry for the whinge.
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mines currently sad, because I just feel lost, so much I want to do, but its hot, and the kids are. well, kids. The house feels messy, too hot to do it, its none of my mess, the gardens need a big clean up, theres crap all through them, the fish pond is disgusting. and unless I do it, it aint going to get done! The lawns need a cut (not that theres much) but theres crap all over them too, before I can phone someone to do it, the stuff needs to be picked up that has been there for a good 2 months. Hate living in a rented house, hate having no yard for the kids to PLAY in, hate having a damn big car I cant park at the shops coz all the carspots are small, plus I cant park the big bloody thing(but otherwise I love the car).
I dont like myself too much at the moment, how easy I can lose my temper at the kids (and being HOT doesnt help one bit, nor does being stuck inside to play coz its hot, and theres no room outside anyway)
so yeah, just sad, coz there always seems there is something in the way of what I would like to happen, no-one else seems to see the mess (or cares)
and cleaning doesnt just involve picking up toys and rubbish. it means toilets need doing, floors need mopping, windows, bathrooms, walls wiped.
If I had the $$ I would pay someone to help me, as no-one here does!! sure they pick stuff up off the floor, and clear the benches, take the rubbish out (mind you, its overflowing by then and they dont pick up the little bits that fall behind the bin!! NO!! I do that!)
I hate having to ask mum for help, to come watch the kids while I go grocery shopping (lets be real here, I am NOT taking 6 kids with me!!!) I mean mum will, but shes got dad and nanna to worry about, plus her own problems.
sorry for the whinge.
I am happy for the moment. Kids have been fed, and the kitchen and dining table cleaned, as well as the lounge room floor. It wasn't easy, but now I am having gruelling sit downs (much needed) for the next couple of hours then it will be
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Poor Mel.we've all been there haven't we Ladies.all know the absolute despair of a messy house and little or no inclination to do a proper job.
I should be doing mine, but think I am still suffering Xmas lag.
My mood icon is doubtful as the TT has just gone to see his Dad for a couple of days.and I am worried that he will be OK.
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Mine has changed to tired as I am going to go clean my teeth and then go to bed
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Sonnie who is apeaking to you in an aggressive tone?thats not on
Melwhjat can i say the house is bound to be messy with 6 kids would your DH take the kids out for a few hours for you to clean up a bit?
mine is stressed because i am stressed with mum if it's not mum someone or something is stressing me